Dancing Through Life: I'll find a way

Sunday, January 4, 2009

I'll find a way

Happy 2009!

As we embark on new challenges, new relationships, and new adventures this year, it all comes down to believing in yourself. Believing you are worth it, having the confidence to take that risk, understanding that those who don't see you for the great person you are, don't deserve you. Don't let anyone, despite even the most painful of circumstances, make you believe that you deserve anything less than the best. Never give up on yourself, even when life gets hard......

I can't tell you how many successful people told me their breakthroughs came the moment after they decided not to abandon ship, quit, forget it, change jobs or break up relationships.

Never give up the ship!

The challenge is that we give in to pain. We don't want to deal with the reality of the situation, or we can't endure so we submit to the feelings of worthlessness, doubt, hopelessness, and on and on and on.

Today, I ask you to have patience - with yourself. Find a way to soothe yourself, to talk kindly to yourself, to tell yourself:

"I'll find a way."

***Feeling thankful for surrounding myself with people that encourage me to talk kindly to myself, for telling me that they can see how strong I am, I proved that I can do what others thought I never would be able to, and what a wonderful feeling to enjoy life surrounded by people who understand every aspect of who I am and who I want to be. Seems like the lessons of 2008 are already paying off, and that I no longer need to regret the past, because the lessons learned from it, what now lies within me ahh, it's priceless;)

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"I do believe that when we face challenges in life that are far beyond our own power, it's an opportunity to build on our faith, inner strength, and courage. I've learned that how we face challenges plays a big role in the outcome of them.”

“Living with integrity means: Not settling for less than what you know you deserve in your relationships. Asking for what you want and need from others. Speaking your truth, even though it might create conflict or tension. Behaving in ways that are consistent with your personal values. Making choices based on what you believe, and not what others believe.”

“Aim for success, not perfection. Never give up your right to be wrong, because then you will lose the ability to learn new things and move forward with your life. Remember that fear always lurks behind perfectionism. Confronting your fears and allowing yourself the right to be human can, paradoxically, make yourself a happier and more productive person.”

"Sometimes paper is the only thing that will listen to you."

"No matter the consequence those who are honest with themselves get further in life."

"You don't realize how strong a person really is until you see them at their weakest moment."

“Confidence is the inner voice that says you are becoming what you are capable of being.”

“The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.”

“Do you ever just sit down and start writing? And everything is going through your head just pours onto the paper. And when you reread it, it doesn't make sense, but you know its meaning. Because your mind jumps around so much and when you just let go, you lose all control. All of your heart, your soul, is on that paper and you become so vulnerable to the world.”

“Sometimes in the winds of change, we find our true direction.”

“A vision is not just a picture of what could be; it is an appeal to our better selves, a call to become something more.”

*May your tears come from laughing
You find friends worth having
With every year passing
They mean more than gold
May you win but stay humble
Smile more than grumble
And know when you stumble
You're never alone*